A Poker Gentleman
Over the long haul, with luck we learn there is more to the game than most
ever consider. A huge factor to consider is a simple one. Just how to
have people you dominate during the game continue to give you their money
day after day? In most games you have a set pool of regular players
without whom the game would dry up and die. This fact carries more weight
as the limits increase. You must take care of the games you take money
out of on a regular basis. In return for the money you win during your
play you must give something back. The key question here is just want are
you giving back to those that are not capable of winning over time but yet
return time and time again. You really do want those that you are taking
money from to enjoy the time they spend with you. First it will make the
time you spend at the tables more enjoyable but more im****tant you are
giving back something in return which will keep the game alive over time.
At first you may just consider your actions as an act to keep the money
feeders happy. Over time you will see how much you have gained beyond
your winnings. You also will find you are growing wiser and develop a
better understanding of why a person makes the plays they do which will of
course increase your overall profits.
The basic bottom line is a simple one. You want people to want to play
with you. However it does go way beyond that basic reason. Over time you
will find those that can help you will want to help you when you need it.
You also will find your self worth expands as you understand the true
moral worth of your actions in general. Clearly I could point out many
factors to keep in mind but for today I wish to direct your thinking
towards becoming a Poker Gentleman
Identifying a Poker Gentleman?
It is almost a definition of a Poker Gentleman to say he is one who never
inflicts pain. A Poker Gentleman is mainly focused in removing funds from
others with no need or desire to harm or cause distress.
He does this by merely removing the obstacles which hinder the free and
unembarrassed action of those about him. He will concur with the choices
rather than take the initiative to direct or change the manner in which
his opponent views his play.
A Poker Gentleman gives forth benefits to those supplying him winnings
equal to that a fire bringing warmth on a cold night or the joy of a
beloved dogs greeting after a day of rejection.
A true Poker Gentleman avoids whatever may cause resentment. He shows
concern and understanding of the opinions and feelings of those around
him. He puts forth a great effort to make all feel at home, respected,
and welcome.
You will find a Poker Gentleman is always aware of those around him beyond
his present table. He will take time to remember and speak briefly to
even those which are not in his game in a pleasant manner. He will avoid
topics which may offend or bring stress to others. In conversation he
will not be overbearing or boring.
The poker Gentleman will be humble when discussing himself and would never
defend himself with a short off color verbal attack. He will not take the
lead role in gossip or slander. When put to the test he will offer the
best light possible on a given problem to help reduce the concern and
mental stress the subject may be injecting into the game.
A true Poker Gentleman would never belittle another player at the table.
By doing so would only cause a reducing effect on his income in the
future. You will not find him taking unfair advantage of others for he
knows it is best to treat your opponents as if they are your future
friends.
A poker Gentleman has too much intellect to be effected by insults. He is
fully aware those that try to use insults as a tool have a very empty
toolbox.
Overall you will find the games which are well cared for by the Poker
Gentlemen of the world will greatly outlast the other games we see come
and go from place to place. Remember you want people to want to play with
you.
AP
March 2005.
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